Doug Creamer: Asking for guidance

Published 12:00 am Saturday, January 20, 2024

By Doug Creamer

It is hard to believe that we are halfway through January. I guess that means that most people are halfway through their New Year’s resolutions. Many of us make resolutions, but by the beginning of February they are long-forgotten and we have all returned to acting as we did before. It is hard to change and to make that change permanent.

Resolutions come in all shapes and sizes. We promise ourselves to lose weight. We are going to join a gym and exercise. We are going to eat healthy food. We are going to get to bed earlier. We are going to read more. We are going to give up drinking and/or smoking. These are all great things we resolve to change.

Some people through sheer willpower will carry on for several months, or maybe even half a year. But eventually the good habits we are diligently trying to instill in our lives wane. Willpower alone does not have the staying power to bring about change in our lives. We are creatures of habit and we will return to our old ways. The old ways are easy.

Sometimes our doctors can motivate us to make some changes that will last. When we get a bad report from our doctor and we are told that the only way to improve the situation is that we must change, then we can discover something within ourselves that will motivate that needed change. If we make the change in our lives and we see the benefits, that will reinforce and strengthen our resolve to keep the change.

For a number of years my doctor encouraged me to walk. After my annual physical I would start walking for a while, but eventually I would stop. But one year I began to discover mental, physical and spiritual benefits to walking, and now I will go to great lengths to make sure I get a walk in. I want to walk because I feel so much better.

I believe the best way to bring about lasting change in our lives is that we have to ask God for wisdom and guidance. We know that God loves us unconditionally just the way we are, but God wants to mold and shape us into the image of His Son. He wants to change us into a vessel that He can use for His glory. He sees our destiny and wants to get us ready. Think about Joseph, David and Esther and the preparation God put them through to get them ready to fulfill their purpose.

When we seek God and ask for His guidance we might be surprised at what He chooses to work on. He might show us an area we didn’t even know needed attention. The key is that when He shows us an area He is committed to helping us make the changes. Our job at that point is to cooperate with Him. Imagine that, you are working side-by-side with God to bring about a change in your life. That is the definition of success.

God’s always desires our best. God is a good Father. The trouble is God’s training plan and path to our success is not always an easy road. David fought lions and bears long before he fought Goliath. He was also chased by Saul long before he became king. Esther had to put her complete trust and faith in God before she went to the king because if he didn’t extend the royal scepter to her she would have lost her life. God is preparing us for our moment, our purpose; we have to learn to trust Him in the process.

When we seek Him and ask Him for His guidance we will be shown what we need to do. It might be challenging and feel impossible, but we need to have faith that He will see us through. God will never point out an area that needs change and then leave us to our own ability to make those changes. He will strengthen us and encourage us through the process. We will feel His presence as we work with Him.

I want to encourage you to seek God’s guidance before you try to make any changes in your life. He knows the best path. He will send help and support. He will walk with you through the process. In the end, you will experience His goodness and favor. God has a plan for your life that includes a training plan. Trust Him with the process. Put your hand in His; He will guide you to success.

Contact Doug Creamer at PO Box 777, Faith, NC 28041 or doug@dougcreamer.com.