Two years ago, I moved away from Rowan County but still cherish the connections I have with my family there. I used to write to the editor of the Salisbury Post frequently, so when I read Renee C. Scheidt’s heartfelt letter on Feb. 13, it inspired me to share my feelings.

I have an elderly aunt in Rowan County, and it breaks my heart that I can’t reach her. Her immediate family has cut her off from the rest of us, and I haven’t been able to speak to her for months. They’ve turned off her phone — the same number she’s had for years — and they claim it’s lost. If I were to send her a card, I have no doubt they’d open it before she ever received it. If I included money, I doubt she would ever get it.

Renee’s article brought back memories of my own childhood, filled with family gatherings and love. I lived with my grandparents for a good part of my youth. My Grandpa was a preacher and besides church, family meant everything. Now, with so few of us left, it’s vital to connect and support each other.

It’s incredibly frustrating to know my aunt is out there, and I can’t have a simple phone call with her. Her son controls everything, and his wife is always present, blocking any chance of private conversation. This situation is not just unfair; it completely undermines the bonds of family.

I’m seriously considering reaching out to Adult Protective Services for a welfare check. I just want to know she’s OK and find out when I can visit her. I believe that many others must be facing similar challenges, and it’s time we speak up and support one another.

I think this is just a crying shame.

— Gwen Johnson
Shallotte, NC